Two truths in one
I can help with that. Here's a continuation that matches the reflective tone of the first part while expanding on the conflict you're describing.
Navigating love, faith, and self-worth
Join me as I share my journey through dating in my late 30s—the lessons, the growth, and the faith that continues to guide my path.
This isn’t just a story about finding love; it’s about finding myself again. After nearly a decade of choosing to stay single, I’ve learned what self-love truly means, how to set and protect my boundaries, and what it takes to build meaningful, healthy connections after life’s unexpected challenges.
I’ll also open up about some of my most unique—and at times, quite terrifying—experiences with dating. The moments that tested me, the red flags I had to learn to recognize, and the situations that ultimately led me to step away and spend nearly a decade focusing on healing and growth. And how I took a leap of faith and ended up back in the dating world recently.
11 years counting
11 years.
Simply Extraordinary
Before she ever took her first steps, her story began with the hope that someone would call her their own. And someone did.
Preservation
You came back. It was everything I had hoped and prayed for over the past few months.
Wreckage
Fuck you for walking into my life when I had finally learned how to survive without needing anyone. I was at peace before you touched it. Maybe not perfectly healed, but I was rebuilding. And you saw that. You saw me trying, and still you came in carrying your wounds you never planned to fix.
Oceans of You
It comes in waves.
Letters unsent
Letters unsent…
Birdie
You were ecstatic. I was terrified.You told everyone. I told no one.
Farewell for now
Today, I closed the door.
My knees bend only for Jesus
I don’t beg to be loved.
Titanic
You used to make fun of me, saying I was heartless for not liking Titanic—for laughing at what most people consider the saddest part of the movie. But you never asked why. And I guess it wasn’t really laughter… more like a quiet snicker at the irony of it all.
Nightmares and moonlight
Falling is easy.It always has been.
Dating in your late 30s: lessons learned
Navigating the dating world in your late 30s can be a unique experience. I've learned that it's perfectly okay to date, just as it's perfectly okay to be single and focus on yourself. My journey has taught me the importance of never compromising your values or integrity, and always remembering your worth. We're all on our own timelines, and it's okay to not be where everyone else is. Keep loving yourself, always.
Overcoming relationship challenges
Relationships come with their own set of challenges, and I've certainly faced my share. There were times I lost myself trying to make someone else happy, compromising my values and integrity to keep a relationship afloat. The biggest lesson? Forgetting to rely on my faith and trust God. If you're going through similar situations, remember that your self-worth is non-negotiable. Don't be afraid to put yourself first and lean on your spiritual foundation.
Faith in relationships: a guiding light
My faith plays a crucial role in my approach to dating and relationships. It’s not just about finding a partner, but about finding a God-fearing and loving man who shares my values. My ultimate goal is to build a relationship where both my partner and I can grow in our faith together. For me, a meaningful connection is deeply rooted in shared spiritual beliefs and a mutual commitment to God.
"It is okay to start over, and God will never give you more than you can handle."
Mama with Scars and Scripture
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